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Confusables Entry 1164 / 1350 60-second read

Sympathy vs. Empathy

Feeling for someone versus feeling with them.

The comparisoni

✗ Wrong

She showed sympathy by understanding what it was like to lose a parent.

✓ Correct

She showed empathy by understanding what it was like to lose a parent — sympathy is distance; empathy is shared feeling.

The ruleii

SYMPATHY = for. EMPATHY = with.

SYMPATHY acknowledges suffering without sharing it: "I'm sorry for your loss." EMPATHY imagines being in the other's place: "I understand how that must feel." Sympathy comforts; empathy connects.

Memory aidiii

Remember it like this

Sympathy feels for. Empathy feels with.

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